Undisclosed Thoughts

This is a PSA to all the ladies

Ok now I have sat back long enough and watched myself and friends get treated like shit by these so called “men” and I am fucking tired. I am fucking tired of hearing about how you fucking some dude, but he won’t claim you as a girlfriend or treat you as such, but you are giving him all these girlfriend benefits.  BITCH stop! That is what I had to do. Because guess what? You out here getting your pussy banged out, for what, 30 minutes of that oooo wee and nothing more. Then you complaining about how he won’t treat you right and so forth. He is never going to RESPECT you because you don’t respect yourself.  You are out here giving him everything without even making him try. And please don’t bullshit me with that “we go out to eat,” “we go shopping” nonsense because it is all BULL AND SHIT! The money, clothes and dinner don’t bring you no intergrity! It just kinda makes it feel a little better that you letting this nigga bang your pussy out.

Another thing, I am sick of looking at friends settle for dudes they don’t even like! Complaining about the sex, how lame they are, and how they are clingy, but you still giving the dude the pussy! Why oh why are you doing this?! I don’t even understand that shit.  Ok I have some beautiful friends who settle for the losers.  They seem nice, but in all reality they aint on shit.  I just can’t sit back anymore and watch that shit happen.  Its like why are you cooking, driving him around, and fucking him if you don’t want a relationship with him?! You confused like shit girl! CONFUSED! You can’t find another dude if you laying up under the dude you don’t want! AIN’T NO WAY THAT COULD BE ME!!!!

Oh this my favorite thing, not wanting to up your sex partners numbers, so they stick with what they know! BITCH KILL YOURSELF! Ok if you keep the pussy tight and fresh ain’t nobody going to know if you slept with 1 or 100! It’s all about how you carry yourself.  I hate a simple ass bitch that say that shit.  YOU ARE SIMPLE YES YOU ARE! So move on and find someone new and yea maybe ya’ll fuck and it don’t work, but atleast you moved on.

Now I ain’t gone lie. We done all read about the shit I have done in the past and I was once a silly bitch chasing dick with no goals in site.  I am growing up and I a currently in rehabilitation for my hoe ways.  I realize that I want to get married and have a family, so the only way I am going to get that if I stop letting myself get jerked around and respect myself. I am learning along the way.  I am now in a good place with a great man :) and he is treating me like the lady I am.  Ladies listen up and take a look at your life.  Stop talking about how you pimp these dudes and so forth cuz u look pathetic just like the dudes who talk like that.  Stop giving these dudes relationship benefits with NO RELATIONSHIP! Stop being so hard up for male company, you letting someone fuck your walls out and annoy you.  Respect yourself please! I am seeing a sad epidemic when I talk to friends and they are satisfied with being a side piece or not defining their relationships.  WTH?! Bitches (i say this with love) please stop settling for these crumbs and get the full meal. Your man will come! I promise you.  Just take sometime and get to know you and what you want.  How are you going to get a fully put together man if you all confused about what you want and need? How?!

We need to also stop complaining about the lack of good men because it’s mostly our fault why we get treated like shit.  Def black women among black men! We have made it so easy for these guys cuz we’re so scared to be alone and losing a guy that we bending over backwards all while he disrespecting the shit out of us. NO FUCKING THANK YOU! I am not a fan and neither should you be.  Make these dudes respect you and when he disrespect you cut that fool off and let him no where he can take that shit too! 

I might have offended some but I don’t give a fuck. Wake ya’ll simple asses up and get the cum outta ya eye!